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The Viking
I believe this thinking is a major part of the problem it assumes this issue is solely the "perception" of the Palestinians when it isn't.
Now this is my guess and it is just a guess as I don't know a huge number of Israeli's or Palestinians but if you were to separate the rank and file Israeli and Palestinian you would discover that they would quite happily live together peacefully and I base this on the fact that the vast majority of people just want to get on with their lives.
The problem is that both sides are being ruled by fanatic's or zealot's if you please and as such neither of them really want peace, the Hamas and co can't accept peace because that will strip them of power, Israel can't accept peace because that will make them irrelevant to the world and worst of all it will confine them to borders.
The only solution to this mess is to take the leadership of all parties concerned out and shoot them and keep repeating this process until you find a bunch that value life above power.
Alternatively you can fall back to my original catch all solution and nuke the entire region thus solving a lot of the worlds ills.
To achieve a change, the perceptions of the others must change. It begins there; I have met many Palestinians, and discussed Israel, the conflict, and their attitudes toward Israel. The surprising attitude I faced from them was, they had more hostile feelings toward the Egyptians than to the Israelis, especially if they were from the Gaza strip. Another thing was the majority of the Palestinians were more pragmatic than many of the members of this forum. To reach a peace in the region, the people can do it as they have done in other places, the collapse of totalitarian governments in East Europe, especially Romania. What we are calling "the Arabic Spring" started by the people, not by their own governments