Duty Honor Country
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Leaders need to be hard on their soldiers.  My first squad leader was extremely hard on me.  He set a standard that I could never attain.  As an RTO, he made me carry everything and then wonder why I struggled to keep up.  He never let me rest in the field and he made my life hell in the rear.  After he left, I came to the realization that he made me into a pretty good soldier.  At the time, forward observers were in short supply and I did not get an RTO.  I was use to carrying everything and I performed my job with ease.