Ted,
I appreciate the fact that the Netherlands is not a world military power, and doesn't possess the rapid reaction military capability that some other nations do. I don't disagree at all that it would have taken time, perhaps a considerable amount of time, for The Netherlands to mount a powerful military campaign in Iraq.
My problem is with the poitical side. Political decisions of "I support you" or "I oppose you" can be made literally in seconds. The Netherlands chose to oppose the U.S. in Iraq. That decision was made in seconds, with little or no deliberation.
And I am convinced that descision was made on the basis of American, not Dutch, politics. Had the American president at the time been a far left democrat like Gore, or Kerry, I believe that political support from The Netherlands, Belgium, France, Germany and others would have been strong and immediate, with actual military support coming shortly thereafter.
I would dearly love to see Churchill's "Grand Alliance" restored, but if the price for such an alliance is a left-wing government in the U.S., then I will oppose it bitterly.
To me, seeing the U.S. governed by the left is simply not worth any alliance, or any friendship. I do not like isolationism! I do not like having to "go it alone" without friends or allies. But isolationism it is preferable to left-wing politics and policies, IMHO.