Here is an op ed from the NYTimes I think applies...
Palestinian Civil Disobedience
By
NICHOLAS KRISTOF My Sunday column is on an issue that has interested me for years: the possibility of Palestinians using nonviolent resistance on a massive scale to help change the political dynamic in the Middle East and achieve a two-state solution.
My interest in this strategy arises partly because I don’t see peace talks getting anywhere right now. One problem is that Prime Minister Netanyahu isn’t enthusiastic about a two-state solution and won’t make the concessions necessary for a deal. Another is that the Palestinians are split between Gaza and the West Bank, so there is no unified entity that can deliver all Palestinians. And while we know what the final deal would look like — the Clinton parameters, or the Geneva accord — the two sides are just too far apart right now. But maybe, just maybe, a non-violent resistance strategy would change the dynamic and make a political deal possible.
When I ask Palestinians about nonviolent civil disobedience, one common objection is that they tried this — the first intifada –and that their peaceful protests will be met with violence by settlers and security forces alike. That objection underscores how little people understand about nonviolent resistance. Compare the first intifada to Gandhi’s salt march or to King’s work in Selma, and they’re not remotely similar. Gandhi very carefully chose marchers who wouldn’t resist or fight back. His principle was that protesters shouldn’t even raise their arms to protect themselves when they were clubbed — and stone-throwing would have left him aghast.
Moreover, as Gandhi knew well, the violence suffered by peaceful protesters was part of what made the protests succeed. It was the sight of peaceful men and women lining up to be clubbed that outraged the world and led to the unraveling of the British empire. Gandhi spent years in British prisons, but he was a genius at public relations and new that nonviolence gave the protesters the high moral ground in ways that would transform the political process.
True, nonviolent protests didn’t work so well in Iran last year. But Israel is a democracy with huge numbers of television cameras all over. And I think American public opinion and a good chunk of Israeli public opinion would be moved by the sight of large numbers of peaceful protesters.
http://kristof.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/07/10/palestinian-civil-disobedience/
Basically I suspect that the Palestinians are convinced that civil disobedience would just end up in them losing land without at least putting up a fight, I just don't think it would work when you are dealing with a parasitic nation like Israel.
The first aspect in all of this is to try and determine why the leadership of neither side wants peace, my guess is that the Palestinians do genuinely believe in their cause and as such finding a common ground with Israel is almost impossible.
Why Israel doesn't want peace is of course another argument, there is no doubt that they make all the right public statements about wanting it (but then so has every aggressive state throughout history) but then they keep on expanding settlements and borders which everyone knows will ensure there never is peace.