You know after reading that, then reading it again and once more because I got confused I have decided that we are doing everything we can to avoid solving the problem by looking for overly complex reasons as to why people turn to terrorism.
As a kid I grew up in a traditional family of the time, dad worked, mum stayed at home, we were packed up and sent to school, on the weekends we as a family went and did things.
Since then we trade seven days a week, jobs are now almost entirely rostered and the pay has failed to keep up resulting in both parents having to work at all hours and sometimes requiring multiple jobs, what time you do get is spent frantically trying to fill in the gaps, most kids probably couldn't pick their parents from a line up (and in many cases one has totally abandoned the process and fled the scene).
I guess my point is that perhaps we should look at the world we have created/inherited to find the root causes and solutions.
Anyway sorry for the rambling but reflection is a big thing in New Zealand right now and I am probably doing a bit of it myself.