hey i am ashley

red solo cup i fill you up,
lets have a party lets have a part
i love you red solo cup, i lift you up
procceed to party, procceed to party
 
ashleyrenee590 said:
red solo cup i fill you up,
lets have a party lets have a part
i love you red solo cup, i lift you up
procceed to party, procceed to party
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I have been sober too long.

Maybe this attitude is a reflection on the disunity among us these days? Nobody commits to social connections with others anymore.
 
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yes they fo but you also have to have the social side that wants to get out and meet random strangers
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When in our history did being a social asset turn into facebook and binge drinking?

That is not what I am talking about at all.

I am talking about the awkward looks you will get when you attempt to engage in real world social skills with someone anymore.

Social skills such as voiced communication, team bases interactions and the use of the exchanging of ideas and asking for suggestive input to accomplish a task.

You know? Those type of social skills? Like in a small town back in the day, you had your town watch for saftey, your shop keeps, your foremen your public officials your inn keepers.


All working in tandem using face to face interactions to use each other's skills and talents to run a community together.

Those type of social skills that seem to be a alien concept to many people when I approach them on those lines.

Not "let's have a drink and do the same thing every always does" That builds no new real social skills that can translate to any real usefulness outside of leisure, and leisure by all means is not very productive.

Just one thing I am starting to see everywhere I go.

It can make things tedious at times.
 
touche but in reality depends on the person. when i drink i know what i am doing and all i also get very socialiable and talk to every single person ican. But then again in real life i can talk to people also the hard part is finding common ground with a person to strike up the convo. i go to bars i have people talkig to me and its about there day at work or something funny about there life you just need to know the bars and the type of people that hang out around there.
 
ashleyrenee590 said:
touche but in reality depends on the person. when i drink i know what i am doing and all i also get very socialiable and talk to every single person ican. But then again in real life i can talk to people also the hard part is finding common ground with a person to strike up the convo. i go to bars i have people talkig to me and its about there day at work or something funny about there life you just need to know the bars and the type of people that hang out around there.
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You still have no Idea what I am talking about do you?

I am not meaning sitting around drinking all day or leisure.

I mean the lack of social working and problem solving skills.

Not drinking, a 10 year old can drink and be 21st century "social" (And in some places they do).

I mean team building and general problem assessing skills. Be able to help someone of total disimilarity to yourself and accomplish a task effiencently.

Being able to do that on the fly.

Younger people especially seem to have a tough time managing this in the real world.

Maybe we are spending to much time "plugged in" That we are not as developed in those skills.

As hypocritical as it sounds.
 
well first off.. no need to argue i can solve problems.. you are complaining about people being plugged in and all then you complain about people going out and drinking at bars... so thoose people see real life and at least are g atoing out and doing things, i dont just sit a bar i hiked again last week and went to a bar but i do other things. im in college have a job and do active things such as hiking snowboarding and im in a softball legue with my church
 
ashleyrenee590 said:
well first off.. no need to argue i can solve problems.. you are complaining about people being plugged in and all then you complain about people going out and drinking at bars... so thoose people see real life and at least are g atoing out and doing things, i dont just sit a bar i hiked again last week and went to a bar but i do other things. im in college have a job and do active things such as hiking snowboarding and im in a softball legue with my church
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I am noticing the same type of natural behavior in your rebuttle.

People 99% of the time when they hear or see something they don't like or necessarily agree with they either attempt to justify themselves or attack the person who said it.

It doesn't matter who makes these observations or who says them, I am not the situation, I am not the trend. I am just a person, attacking my comments after me is not talking about the situation.

Also a detailed list of almost justifing qualities shows either you misunderstand my meaning or unknowingly felt threatened or unsure about my observations. I really am unsure why you feel you have to justify yourself.

I am talking about a trend a motion, if you don't agree with it attacking me seems unrelated, any body and many people can pick up on trends in our society.

Socially inept people both young and a generation or two behind us seem to become more and more common. There is a keen difference between public social skills and sociallizing.

Some of the attitudes you display from a observative standpoint seem to be a typical outlook on this trend. And I don't see any unique differences in that.

That's obeservations. You can attack me if you wish however It doesn't matter If I was deceased, the trends and patterns will still be there, the fact I am the one who saw them is irrelevent.

And your behaviours towards others or hobbies as unrelated as that information is to this topic are irrelevent also, as it can just be catergorized as unecessary personal information.
 
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ME: Makes post on generational trends of social ineptness.

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