is there a point that u have screwed up so bad with a girl? - Page 3




 
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Boots
 
May 20th, 2004  
Italian Guy
 
 
Goaliedude should give us a little bit more elements to have us advise him though. He must have worked it all out by now I guess.
May 20th, 2004  
Marksman
 
 
probably,we are slow in this cind of matters
May 21st, 2004  
FutureRANGER
 
 
Speak for yourself dude

What exactly did you do? You have to manipulate the situation so she wants to come back to you. Make it seem like her loss. Then she'll come talk to you, and you act indifferent, and then 'give in' to her. It works in theory
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Boots
May 21st, 2004  
goaliedude66630
 
 

Topic: yea


i like the theory ok heres a question she likes me as a good friend how do i get her to like me as more of a friend come on give me the winning answer all knowing ones
May 21st, 2004  
FutureRANGER
 
 
What?? Come on I thought you did something like take her to see "Osama's Mutant Cyborg Army" or something.

Don't even try. All that will happen is that you will loose a good friend. Just be good friends with her, enjoy that, try to get over her, then you have a great friend thats a girl that can help you with advice and stuff. Don't even try.

My 2 cents.
May 21st, 2004  
Italian Guy
 
 
Ops.. thats a rreaally unfortunate premise: once she regards you as a 'good friend', Goaliedude, then it's over.
It's a no-go I think. You'd better follow FutureRanger's 2 cents buddy.
May 21st, 2004  
1217
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by FutureRANGER
Don't even try. All that will happen is that you will loose a good friend. Just be good friends with her, enjoy that, try to get over her, then you have a great friend thats a girl that can help you with advice and stuff. Don't even try.

My 2 cents.
I'm afraid he's probably right. Here are some possible scenarios: You can tell her or not tell her. If you don't tell her, everything will turn out okay and you will probably meet someone else, without losing a friend. (I actually took this option once, and it still works fine.) If you tell her, two things can happen, either she says 'no' or she says 'yes'. If she says 'no', even if you both try really hard, your friendship will never be the same. If she says 'yes' two things can happen, either it doesn't work out, or it does. If it doesn't, you will have lost your girlfriend and a good friend, all at once, and if it does, you're one lucky .
There's always a chance of it turning out okay, but it's up to you, you're there, you know her, you'll have to decide whether to risk it or not. But remember, you’re 16 and the chances of a lasting friendship are a lot better than the chances of you and her staying a couple for a longer period of time.
May 21st, 2004  
goaliedude66630
 
 

Topic: right


well thanks guys not what i wont to hear but true thanks friends sound great thanks again the 2 cents was worth it
May 21st, 2004  
Jtf2
 
Its true it will hurt for nothing be her friend...even if you want more..
May 21st, 2004  
I.Y.A.A.Y.A.S
 
I think this thread has gotten way of topic... but that is just my opinion