always, always, get involved in everything and anything oyu can...no matter how stupid or boring it may be. got to elementary schools/jr high school/high school at a fair or something, get the kids to come and get interested. go to sporting events (baseball games, soccer, football), you will mostly recruite men so go to where you will find the most men. acouple girls will join here and there, like me, but most of the time (especially with other friends) they won't talk to you, just alittle fact.