theres alot of good things and bad things about the "lifestyle" you hear so much about. lots of them vary depending on who you are and what you do. Off the top of my head I will create too sections for you both showing the pros and the cons of the military lifestyle(hope i don't offend anyone and if i do OH WELL you know it's the truth).
PROS:
1.Decent pay if you aren't in debt.
2.Great benefits.
3.Learn job skills and get qualifications normal employees cant get that may lead to other job opportunities upon completetion of service.
4.Free health care.
5.Very hard to get fired.
6.Don't have to worry about getting laid off.
7.Even if you aren't at work, you are still getting paid.
8. After deployments, you come back with alot of savings 20,000+ if you saved up well.
9.Awesome weapons training.
10.Feeling of self worth and accomplishment.
11.If you are lucky enough to be around great leadership and peers, you may re-enlist.
12.Holidays off and occasional 4 day weekends.
13. Leave roughly occurs 2-3 times a year for 14 days. R&R in the middle of deployment or tbd(to be determined) date with 15 days. also usually 30 day leave upon return from deployment with pay.
14.Lots of social services and types of limited family support for you on bases that you have access too.
15. Post exchanges may have reduced prices and are always tax free.
16. Training, depending on the unit you go to.
17. If you go to a hot spot, you'll get to do your job and whack haji everyday like you enlisted to do.
CONS:
1. Countless deployments. If you are unlucky enough to go to a boring area, you will do stupid missions and get yelled at for firing a warning shot.
2. Away from loved ones and family ALOT whether it's deployment or field time training.
3. Sometimes you may not have anything to do and still be stuck at work past 1900 while the dinner your wife made you is getting cold.
4. Infidelity due to absence.
5. Missing child births and growing years of your children.
6. Seeing something you might not be ready fire(i.e. combat, bodies)
7.PTSD
8.Develop a drinking problem, smoking problem or dipping problem. You may not have any of these now, but I assure you my friend, everyone in the military is an alcoholic and if some aren't, then they probably ain't Infantry.
9. Being around bad leadership and losing your morale.
10. Stupid senseless rules will always be a factor regardless of where you go and will eat you up as the years go by to the point where you have a zero tolerance for most things.
11.With all the programs the military has for you and your family, my personal experience only proved to me that they all fix the symptoms, not the problems.
12.Check the box leadership and care.(when I say this I mean, fill out this sheet that asks you if you have any financial trouble. If you select yes, the sheet gets placed in your counseling packet and never looked at. If it does get looked at, they may send you to behavioural health where someone you don't know will try to determine if you are crazy. Later on, that person will send a report back to your commander to see if you are fit for duty.
13. Waking up at ungodly hours of the morning to conduct PT
14.When you put in over time, you still get paid the same.
15. When you deploy, you will see contractors who do less than you, make more than you and with less stupid rules they have to deal with
16. MASS PUNISHMENT(means if your buddy screws up, it's also your fault regardless of the great things you've been doing)
17. Bad units who don't wanna train.
18.The military has many rules that protect your spouse over you and will go to great lengths to screw you over and get her ahead.(financially, material wise and regardless of infedility)
19. Promised schools and training that goes on someone's desk and gets lost.
20. Promised duty assignments that change at the last minute after you made proper arrangments.
21.Countless check the box classes that was written in 5th grade format(i.e suicide prevention, equal oppurtunity and resiliancy
22. Having a family who doesn't love you anymore or doesn't recognize you because you're always gone

Only a few things I can think off the top of my head bro. You decide.