Dear wayouthere10,
I am also the sibling of a fallen hero. I can only tell you there will always be pain, but you get used to it. There are several good books about siblings loss, as they are the most uncomforted group when something like this happens. You're expected to kind of heal on your own so you don't upset anyone else.
If you have a good friend or two, they can be helpful. Lean on them a little when you need to.
If you'd like to write me, send an e-mail. My qualifications are 36 years experience dealing with this and a lot of hard work.
Janie
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