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Originally Posted by Osiphen
I'm scared because it's a six year contract and I'm not sure what could happen. I am honestly afraid of being shipped out to war and getting shot and permanently disabled - or worse.
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I'd be more concerned about "worse". You know, like NOT going and NEVER finding out
IF you could do it or not. If you enlist, count on go to war. You can't join any part of the service and truly expect to not see war. Little secret for ya- that's what you're there for.
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Originally Posted by Osiphen
I've never been a very physical active person, but I've been interested in martial arts recently - I'm not very strong, but I'm not over-weight. I'm 5'5, 140lbs. I have no motivation to do any working out because any time I try to go to the gym and work out, my mom doesn't let me. She comes up with some weird excuse.
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Go USMC. Buddy, they'll turn your life around, like it or not! Army is good, I was Army, but truth is, the USMC is more hard core than Army and the NG has no comparison.
As for motivation, I have the answer for ya. Go to the school of hard knocks for a year. "School of hard knocks"? Yep. Go live on the street for a year. Homeless. After that year I think you'll have motivation. If not then you'll likely end up in Rikers Island, Sing Sing or dead in the gutter. Is that harsh? Not really. That's the way life is. That's exactly where you might end up if you don't start making something of your life now.
So enlist. You'll hate the first 6 months, but you'll love the rest of your life because of the changes it'll make in you.
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Originally Posted by Osiphen
I've been pampered my entire life. I've never even made my own bed. I want to actually go out there and do things for myself for once.
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You're kidding, right? Make it yourself. Do your laundry yourself. Cook for yourself.
Most importantly, live your life for yourself.
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Originally Posted by Osiphen
I just need to know, is it worth it for me?
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Yes it is.
So enlist. And if you do, and you make it through, come back and tell us what you think of your decision.
I'm telling you to enlist, then I tell you to live your own life. Kind of a mixed message I guess. Really I'm just trying to help you. All of here are, really.