A View from the Other Side




 
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Boots
 
May 5th, 2006  
AJChenMPH
 
 

Topic: A View from the Other Side


Got this in my inbox today, figured you'd all enjoy.

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A VIEW FROM THE OTHER SIDE
By Patrick Camunes
(an article published in the Belvoir Eagle on 12NOV98 )

(Editor's note: The painting "Reflections" of the Vietnam Wall depicts a man standing with his hand on the wall, mourning his father or brother who was killed. What he doesn't see is the reflection from the other side showing that relative with HIS hand on the wall, touching the hand of his survivor. The painting inspired this commentary. A small picture of the painting can be found at http://www.vietnamreflections.com/)

There are so many things that are written about the Wall but never anything of being on the other side. The picture "Reflections" that I use as wallpaper on my PC and a recent story called "Autumn Wall" inspired me.

At first there was no place for us to go until someone put up that Black Granite Wall. Now, everyday and night, my Brothers and my Sisters wait to see the many people from places afar file in front of this Wall. Many stopping briefly and many for hours and some that come on a regular basis. It was hard at first, not that it's gotten any easier, but it seems that many of the attitudes towards that war that we were involved in have changed. I can only pray that the ones on the other side have learned something and more Walls as this one needn't be built.

Several members of my unit and many that I did not recognize have called me to the Wall by touching my name that is engraved upon it. The tears aren't necessary but are hard even for me to hold back.

Touch the Wall, my Brothers, so that we can share in the memories that we had. I have learned to put the bad memories aside and remember only the pleasant times that we had together. Tell our other Brothers out there to come and visit me, not to say Good Bye but to say Hello and be together again to ease that pain of loss we all share.

Today, an irresistible and loving call comes from the Wall. As I approach I can see an elderly lady and as I get closer I recognize her .. It's Momma! I've looked forward to this day, but also regretted it because I didn't know what my reaction would be.

Next to her, I suddenly see my wife and immediately think how hard it must of been for her to come to this place and my mind floods with the pleasant memories of 30 years past. There's a young man in a military uniform standing with his arm around her ... My God! ... It's .. it has to be my son. Look at him trying to be the man without a tear in his eye. I yearn to tell him how proud I am, seeing him standing tall, straight and proud in his uniform.

Momma comes closer and touches the Wall and I feel the soft and gentle touch I had not felt in so many years. Dad has crossed to this side of the Wall and through our touch, I try to convey to her that Dad is doing fine and is no longer suffering or feeling pain. I see my wife's courage building as she sees Momma touch the Wall and she approaches and lays her hand on my waiting hand. All the emotions, feelings and memories of three decades past flash between our touch and I tell her that it's alright. Carry on with your life and don't worry about me ... I can see as I look into her eyes that she hears and understands. A burden is gone.

I watch as they lay flowers and other memories of my past. My lucky charm that was taken from me and sent to her by my CO, a tattered and worn teddy bear that I can barely remember having as I grew up as a child and several medals that I had earned and were presented to my wife. One of them is the Combat Infantry Badge that I am very proud of and I notice that my son is also wearing this medal. I had earned mine in Vietnam and he had probably earned his in Iraq.

I can tell they are preparing to leave. I try to take a mental picture of them together, because I don't know when I will see them again. I wouldn't blame them if they were not to return and can only thank them that I was not forgotten. My wife and Momma near the Wall for one final touch and so many years of indecision, fear and sorrow are let go. As they turn to leave I feel my tears form as if dew drops on the other side of the Wall.

They slowly move away with only a glance over their shoulder. My son suddenly stops and slowly returns. He stands straight and proud in front of me and snaps a salute. Something makes him move to the Wall and he puts his hand upon the Wall and touches my tears that had formed on the face of the Wall and I can tell that he senses my presence there and the pride and the love that I have for him. He falls to his knees and the tears flow from his eyes and I try my best to reassure him that it's alright and the tears do not make him any less of a man.

As he moves back wiping the tears from his eyes, he silently mouths, God Bless you, Dad ...

God Bless, YOU, Son!
May 6th, 2006  
tomtom22
 
 
Thanks, AJ.
May 8th, 2006  
Charge 7
 
 

The best post I've seen on this board in a long, long time. Indeed, thanks very much, LT.
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Boots
May 8th, 2006  
Italian Guy
 
 
Thank you AJ, great post.
May 8th, 2006  
AJChenMPH
 
 
Roger all, gentlemen, my pleasure.
May 9th, 2006  
Marinerhodes
 
 
Shivers ran down my spine reading this.
May 9th, 2006  
bulldogg
 
 
Touching, thanks LT.