Do you think a virgin wife is important? - Page 6




View Poll Results :Do you mind if your wife is not a virgin?
Yes, I mind 19 22.89%
No, I don't 34 40.96%
Whether yes or no, it doesn't bother me. 30 36.14%
Voters: 83. You may not vote on this poll

 
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Boots
 
October 22nd, 2004  
Patriot_1989tobeyond
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by GuyontheRight
Marrige does not revolve around sex, as our idiot culture so likes to think
Theres someone with a brain on this planet! good post!
October 22nd, 2004  
SAINT
 
But the wife may need sex even if the husband can abstain from it..

Then the wife may look for a bf somewhere..

What can be done?
October 22nd, 2004  
Courtenay
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by GuyontheRight
Marrige does not revolve around sex, as our idiot culture so likes to think
I am a counselor....and I spent quite a few years doing marriage and family counseling. SEX was one of the BIGGEST issues with marriages that were failing. Came in second only behind communication issues. And often the two were tied hand in hand. If you don't think sex is important in a marriage you are really kidding yourself. People couple for many reasons. And we are designed to want and enjoy sexual contact. To discount it's importance is a huge mistake.
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Boots
October 24th, 2004  
USAFAUX2004
 
 
I think that if your going to get married you have to decide if yuor partner and you are compatible, you dont want to marry and not enjoy your life if you dont enjoy sex
October 24th, 2004  
Tessa
 
 
Do you guys love the woman herself, or that she hasn't been experienced in sex?

I personally don't care how many girls a guy has been with, love is stronger then sex. The same goes for the fact that when loving somebody, then you definetly want some close contact with that person, wich in the end involves sex.
October 25th, 2004  
LIPS
 
 
No I don't and that should not be the deciding factor in continuing a relationship.

What about:

Trust,

Respect, and

Mutual love.

To name a few.

Most people out there will have some baggage its just how they deal with it
October 25th, 2004  
USAOwnz
 
I wouldn't want my wife to be a non-virign, but that is just me.
October 25th, 2004  
Courtenay
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by scott.moore
Most people out there will have some baggage its just how they deal with it
That is a very valid point.
October 25th, 2004  
Italian Guy
 
 
I don't care her being a virgin. the girl I'm planning to marry was not a virgin when I met her. That's how she can say I'm a better lover than her previous ones.
October 26th, 2004  
rOk
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by SilverPhoenix
Do you guys love the woman herself, or that she hasn't been experienced in sex?
Woman herself of course.
If it would be the virginity that relationship wouldn't last long, would it?