Do you think a virgin wife is important? - Page 18




View Poll Results :Do you mind if your wife is not a virgin?
Yes, I mind 19 22.89%
No, I don't 34 40.96%
Whether yes or no, it doesn't bother me. 30 36.14%
Voters: 83. You may not vote on this poll

 
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Boots
 
May 18th, 2009  
Lunatik
 
 
Women say that it should be about the "person" and "inner beauty" and not about "the tissue" but even they themselves don't believe in that.

Nevertheless, I must say, I do believe in TRUE LOVE and I believe when you find your THE ONE, you'll realize that he or she may not be the most beautiful or handsome creature in the universe but still you wouldn't change him or her for anyone else...



All I'm saying is that virginity is not important when you really love your girl. But for me, I prefer it over experience.
May 18th, 2009  
sky2979
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by the_13th_redneck
I think people who have issues about their girlfriend/wife's former relationships has a serious insecurity problem.
Through those experiences, the good ones and the bad ones, she has become who she is today. And what is the true meaning behind all of this? You're a better man than those she chose before you.
If you can't listen to her when she wants to talk about experiences of the past, you're not much of a man at all.

Couldn't of said it better...the best part of this statement is that it's a "real man" saying what really matters...wow, Red you really do have it in you!!!! LOL!!! and all this time I couldn't tell!! J/K LOL!!!
May 18th, 2009  
Mikefrombelgium
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by sky2979
How bout men sleeping with bout 20 girls????? any diffrence??? Just wait until you fall in love...you'll be kissing the floor she walks on....
Quote:
Originally Posted by the_13th_redneck
I think people who have issues about their girlfriend/wife's former relationships has a serious insecurity problem.
Through those experiences, the good ones and the bad ones, she has become who she is today. And what is the true meaning behind all of this? You're a better man than those she chose before you.
If you can't listen to her when she wants to talk about experiences of the past, you're not much of a man at all.
Well you both make some good points. and 13th yeah when it comes to relationschips i really have an insecurity issue, i had to many bad experiences unfortunatly. but still their is many wisdom in youre words. i will think and reflect about it
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Boots
May 18th, 2009  
Solideo
 
I have never been reported in a Marian apparition, so Virgins are not really important for me.

I joined the Spanish Foreign Legion and there we said in a song something like "never minds your previous life". I live the moment with a woman not her previous history.

Even If I ever meet a virgin that wouldn´t show me she is better than a woman who had lived a sexual plenitude. Other things are much more important that that: Feelings, nice conversation, to have a partner to be in love...chastity belts are not good for underwear.

Best
May 18th, 2009  
A Can of Man
 
 
Agreed Solideo.
You can have an experienced woman who is wise in the ways of the world, is caring, understanding etc... in most cases, if you find a woman with such attributes, they will be pretty experienced.
My experience with young women was bitterly dissappointing. For the most part, brainless, confused, needy... glad I don't have to deal with that in my personal life anymore.
May 18th, 2009  
rattler
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mikefrombelgium
-snip- ...when it comes to relationships I really have an insecurity issue, I had too many bad experiences unfortunatly.

But still there is much wisdom in your words. I will think and reflect about it
Please do so. What is good, comes back. What you shout into the mountains is what you will hear. It is you who decides in that respect.

If you need a long time charming a girl into getting her flattened legs in the air, then you are on the right track, you succesor will need the same time... Be yourself and believe that your gal is with you because you are who you are.

Cynical, maybe, but true.

Love conquers everything in the end.

Rattler
May 18th, 2009  
Chukpike
 
Do you mind if your wife is not a virgin?

I would after the first night!

Note: I would also mind if after the first night, she wasn't and I was.
May 18th, 2009  
sky2979
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chukpike
Do you mind if your wife is not a virgin?

I would after the first night!

Note: I would also mind if after the first night, she wasn't and I was.

Reality check???? the truth is your not...right??? LOL!!
May 18th, 2009  
pixiedustboo
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lunatik
All I'm saying is that virginity is not important when you really love your girl. But for me, I prefer it over experience.
Thanks, it's nice to see someone who would rather have a relationship with a girl that hasn't slept with every guy they could possibly drag home from the bar.

Even if [we] are clueless, brainless, and needy.

(Or don't right off do a deep throat perfectly. )



I swear. The more I read (and hear from friends) you'd think virginity is a ****ing disease rather than a choice.

Which one would men run faster from?;
Woman #1 = "I have herpes."
or
Woman #2 = "I'm a virgin."

OMG, NOT A VIRGIN! *Que running.* (After all, chances are if she has herpes and knows it she's on meds, and you can always wear a condom. The virgin is...



...oh God...



...INEXPERIENCED!)




p.s. This virgin is PMSing.
May 19th, 2009  
major liability
 
 
Wow, really? I thought virginity was only a stigma for men. That's horrible for humanity, great for young guys.