Do you think a virgin wife is important? - Page 13




View Poll Results :Do you mind if your wife is not a virgin?
Yes, I mind 19 22.89%
No, I don't 34 40.96%
Whether yes or no, it doesn't bother me. 30 36.14%
Voters: 83. You may not vote on this poll

 
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Boots
 
September 28th, 2006  
Donkey
 
 
Animals....we made it up anyways
September 29th, 2006  
sunb!
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Donkey
Animals....we made it up anyways
Plastic surgery can fix lots of things, including a lost virginity...
September 30th, 2006  
Kiwi
 
OMG thats right! Imagine that, how friggin silly.

You would never know then would you, why the would you want it back!

Damn.
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Boots
October 1st, 2006  
sunb!
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kiwi
OMG thats right! Imagine that, how friggin silly.

You would never know then would you, why the would you want it back!

Damn.
Many young immigrant girls in Oslo, Norway, had their virginity restored when they were told by their parents they had found her a man in their country of origin (planned marriage). I recall it was one of the cheapest plastical surgery operations available at several clinics until the case was printed in big capital letters on the frontpage in two major newspapers (weekend editions).
Some time later and none of the clinics openly admits this practice, but everything is still possible if you ask in a quiet corner.

A girl can loose her virginity in several ways, not just by sexual activity, but certain social communities in this part of the world don't accept that...
October 1st, 2006  
Kiwi
 
Damn arrh god no, remind me not to go to Norway.

Thats just wrong.

If she has lost it cause of something else other than sex. Its still wrong to force woman to put their bodies through that to please the rest of the community, to please their future husbands.

Have they no idea what that does to the girl, the emotional scars alone must be bad. Let alone the physical ones. What if they blotch it up, backyard hecks. Damn its like something out of the middle ages.
October 1st, 2006  
sunb!
 
 
I totally agree with you, Kiwi. It is terrible...
September 3rd, 2007  
Digital Wanderer
 
 
Wouldn't a better title for the poll be "Do you think a virgin spouse is important?"

After all, this forum has both male and female members.

Your statement could also be interpreted by intelligence-challenged individuals to imply that its okay for males to not be virgins at marriage, but females should be.

Semantics ARE an important part of the language, that can be used to get both into and out of trouble.

For the poll, I picked it doesn't matter.

Most people marry after having been in a handful of serious relationships. Right or wrong, sex is often a part of serious relationships. Neither my wife nor I were virgins when we met, nor when we married.

I am sure that both of us are a little interested in the depths of other relationships the other has had, but we both know that asking those kinds of questions are only likely to cause trouble in our relationship, so it is simply never discussed.

We focus on the fact that only relationship worth discussing is our own, and that has led to exactly zero problems to date.

In short, let the past lie.
November 30th, 2007  
SilknLeather
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Digital Wanderer
Wouldn't a better title for the poll be "Do you think a virgin spouse is important?"

After all, this forum has both male and female members.

Your statement could also be interpreted by intelligence-challenged individuals to imply that its okay for males to not be virgins at marriage, but females should be.

Semantics ARE an important part of the language, that can be used to get both into and out of trouble.

For the poll, I picked it doesn't matter.

Most people marry after having been in a handful of serious relationships. Right or wrong, sex is often a part of serious relationships. Neither my wife nor I were virgins when we met, nor when we married.

I am sure that both of us are a little interested in the depths of other relationships the other has had, but we both know that asking those kinds of questions are only likely to cause trouble in our relationship, so it is simply never discussed.

We focus on the fact that only relationship worth discussing is our own, and that has led to exactly zero problems to date.

In short, let the past lie.
Very well said. I will add that more people should take more time to consider whom they are sleeping with and why, as they are sleeping with everyone their partner has. Sex is nothing compared to when there is true love involved.
November 30th, 2007  
The Other Guy
 
 
no, I do not see it important at all.
December 1st, 2007  
major liability
 
 
I don't think virginity is important at all. In fact, if you're both experienced in pleasuring others the sex will be much better for the both of you.

That being said, I'm a totally non-religious 18 year old who's never experienced true romantic love, at least in the emotional sense.