I've got some good news:)




 
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Boots
 
February 14th, 2005  
Gelinas
 

Topic: I've got some good news:)


Well, it took me a long time to decide if I was going to post this or not, but in the end I decided I would.

I am young, but also very pregnant (Yes I know what you're thinking). Last Tuesday I went for my ultra sound to find out the sex of my baby, which is a boy . I went with my mom and dad and the whole time my mom was telling me "Oh, you'll love it." I was very happy that I'd get to find out if I was having a boy or girl but it was also the most uncomfortable I have ever been in my life. Any of you who have had an ultra sound know that you have to have a full bladder so you can see the baby better. Well, I didn't know that so the whole time that the nurses where bringing me water I was wondering what the heck they were doing? And when we got into a room I had to go pee very VERY badly. As many of you know pregnant women are emotional, and I seem to cry lots, so I started crying because I had to go pee so badly.(Actually last night I was watching W-Five and started to cry my eyes out because the moving people wouldn't give the poor woman her stuff.)


I thought I'd share my good news with you all, but please if you're going to leave a rude comment about me being pregnant at my age, please don't.

Edit: I was crying because as many of you know that if you have to go pee they give you a cup and only let you fill the cup up. But for those of you who have been pregnant know, that once you start it's very hard to stop. The nurses were giving me water because I had gone pee before I left.
February 14th, 2005  
Charge 7
 
 
If it's good news to you, then it _is_ good news and that's all that really matters. I wish you and your baby the best of luck. It sounds like you have supportive parents and that should be a big help.
February 14th, 2005  
Gelinas
 
Thank you.


I was actually worried about how people would react to reading it, but I am just so happy I thought I'd share it with everyone. When I told my dad I thought he was gonna have a heart attack, and up until he saw the pictures of the baby, he wanted me to give him up for adoption, which I am not going to do. My parents are supportive but very disappointed in me which I don't blame them, it wasn't like I meant to get pregnant. I was always that girl who thought "Ah, it wont happen to me!" I guess I was wrong.



My parents apparently are trying to see if I can go on that tv show "Dr. Phil" Anyone heard of it? I think it's kind of funny that they've written to him. It's not like I'm some sex crazed teen, it was a mistake, me and the guy were just stupid enough not to use a condom.
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Boots
February 14th, 2005  
Vitaly
 
Is the father going to stay around and help out?
February 14th, 2005  
Gelinas
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Vitaly
Is the father going to stay around and help out?
I hope, I'm not to sure though. He's a couple years older then me and I think my dad scared him off, but I do hope he'll be around.
February 14th, 2005  
Vitaly
 
Well good luck
February 14th, 2005  
A Can of Man
 
 
I hope the best of health to you and the baby.
I know there are those who look down upon you but there simply is no reason for that. The most important day is today, and once we get through today you'll find a way to get through tomorrow. It means what you have is what counts.
You have a healthy, baby boy on the way and you also have supportive, caring parents. They can help you raise your baby while you continue your education (which you really should).
So don't pay attention to the critics.
And you might be concerned that guys may not want to marry women with a child. Well guess what? I have a friend getting married sometime in March and his fiancee has two children (they're both in their mid 30s). So don't worry
Have you come up with a name for your boy yet?
February 14th, 2005  
Gelinas
 
I am home schooling right now and will be through out the pregnancy and even after he comes along. I have thought of some names but I'm not sure, my dad thinks I should name him Gelinas (because thats my first name ) but I think I'm gonna go with Michael...because I love that name.

I'm actually pretty suprised I haven't gotten any angry replies. After I had posted the subject I was kicking myself because I thought lots of people were going to be very angry, but I'm glad they aren't.
February 14th, 2005  
A Can of Man
 
 
No one should be.
February 14th, 2005  
chewie_nz
 
with all the wolves here i doubt you'd have to worry about the vultures.

it's not the easy path you've chosen....but nothing good ever is easy.


i wish you luck