Gelinas said:I've got an update about the father...since he is in his first year of university he doesn't want any distractions :x he told me that I should have made him wear a condom and it's my fault that he didn't so I should have to raise the baby. I don't want it to sound like I'm the "victim" here, but what was he doing sleeping with someone who's only 16? The idiot says a lot of things, I guess I was just stupid enough to believe what he said.
Vitaly said:Damn; So how old is he anyway?
Gelinas said:Vitaly said:Damn; So how old is he anyway?
19.
Sexybeast: I live in Alberta, Canada
His parents do know, but they never did like me much, thought I was to young for him.
Vitaly said:Didn't any of your friends say shit about him being 19 and you being 16? I know that if a buddy of mine goes out with some freshman, he'll be heckled by myself and other males of the same age.
Gelinas said:Yeah, I guess you're right. But it wasn't like I hadn't dated older guys before, and let me tell you, this guy sure was handsome.
And like I said before I was only dating him to piss me dad off :lol:
Gelinas said:I also wouldn't of lost all but 3 of my friends because of this.
Vitaly said:Damn, I'm sorry, that's gotta be the worst.
Charge_7 said:Sorry but I'm not going to let you off the hook with blaming your parents. You can blame them for the emotional state you were in at the time but not the choice you made. That was your choice and the father's alone. Courtney's right. It's past time to be considering blame and move on to what needs to be done _now_.
Missileer said:Gelinas, my wife and I married at 17 because of the same reason as you and have been together and happy since Oct. 20th, 1962. We had two boys and 1 girl. I know that the male of the species is the aggressor in these situations. It's just the way we're built. My daughter was pregnant at 16 and we pretty well raised my Grandson and made an exceptional man out of him. All of my family has had the chance to attend College and most of us finished. We are a very supportive family and if one of the kids needed a car to get to school or work, I found a way to get them one. You have to have family support. I made my kids a promise that they could live with my wife and I until they felt they were able to support themselves and all did. I said that to say this. Life handed us a problem and we turned it into an opportunity. I know my story is not the norm but I believe that anyone can overcome just about any problem as long as they have a supportive family/friends.
Vitaly said:Do you even talk to the guy, after you told him about the pregnancy that is?
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