My fiance' and I have decided to join the Navy. We plan on getting married before we leave for basic training. We have already talked to a recruiter and began the process of enlisting. We have a one year old son together and I am wondering what will be the challenges that we will come against with both of us doing active duty??? We are both aware of the chances of us being deployed and that is not a problem for we have a air tight family care plan. What would be the pros and cons? How soon can our son be with us after bootcamp? About how long does it normally take for a home to be set up for us to live in? Any input will be great or stories of those already living as a dual military family.