excalibur2
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after being married for 3 years and together for two my wife decided that while i was undergoing a major surgery that this was a good time to join the air force and never discussed it with me so when i got out i was kinda mad then i said i woudl go with her well she walked out on me and now we are seperated says she dont even know if this is the answer but that she wants more out of life thats its nothing i did its her but i really dont think this is her answer shes looking for so we are gonna try counseling but she is stuck on this air force thing not that i was totally opposed obviously its new and exciting but i think shes trying to use this as a cope out to life too much responsibility we own apartments have good jobs basically one day shes like lets just go so now i basically gotta sell everything i have and being that she did this i am not sure if she does want to reconsile if i woudl just pick up to easily and go i am looking for opinions here someone help 
