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Originally Posted by FutureOKtrooper
As for not being able to raise a child, that’s no excuse. They have programs for people like that, programs that will pay your rent and utilities, food and even car payments while you’re pregnant.
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I said "in one way or another" I didn't only mean financially. People make mistakes, accidents happen. Women can get pregnant even if they are being responsible and using birth control. I really think it's not in the child’s best interest to let them be born while the mother is 16 years old and not capable of raising it on her own. The mother wouldn't be able to go to school anymore, and won't get a chance to make something out of her life, all because of one mistake? Or even worse, because of dumb bad luck?
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Originally Posted by FutureOKtrooper
When the child is born, you put it up for adoption. Give it to a family that, for some reason or another, can’t have children of their own.
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Nice thought, but I don't think that's in the child's best interest (or the mother's) to give it up for adoption. There's lots of people trying to help adopted children, and I respect them, but in lots of cases it creates more problems than it solves. Mothers and children get traumatised by this course of action, and in the case of the kids, now there can be no discussion whether they are "human beings" or not. They are and in my opinion you can't just give 'em up for adoption, I think that's worse than abortion for both the mother and the baby in a lot of cases.
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Originally Posted by Plus what mvilla2426
Unfortunately, with the advent of invitro fertilization, serrogate mothers, and fertility drugs, more and more couples are not going for adoption. Isn't that a shame??
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Originally Posted by FutureOKtrooper
Abortion should not be used as birth control!
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I never said it should be used as birth control. In my mind that would mean that people wouldn't use any other way of birth control than abortion, and that will never happen. Abortion is legal here, and that doesn't lead to more pregnancies than before it was legal. Don't forget, abortion is a traumatic experience for all the involved. People that would do it lightly aren't normal and the child is better of aborted in those (few) cases.
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Originally Posted by FutureOKtrooper
This thread can grow and grow, we can debate for weeks but I will not change my opinion.
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Everyone has a right to his own opinion, I respect yours, I just don’t share it completely
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Originally Posted by Marksman
Well sperm lybs aint much popular these days, cause of the unpleasent effect that myght ocure
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What "unpleasant effect" are you talking about