Topic: Do you think a virgin wife is important? 6

Patriot_1989tobeyond · October 22nd, 2004

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Originally Posted by GuyontheRight

Marrige does not revolve around sex, as our idiot culture so likes to think

Theres someone with a brain on this planet! good post!

SAINT · October 22nd, 2004

But the wife may need sex even if the husband can abstain from it..

Then the wife may look for a bf somewhere..

What can be done?

Courtenay · October 22nd, 2004

Quote:

Originally Posted by GuyontheRight

Marrige does not revolve around sex, as our idiot culture so likes to think

I am a counselor....and I spent quite a few years doing marriage and family counseling. SEX was one of the BIGGEST issues with marriages that were failing. Came in second only behind communication issues. And often the two were tied hand in hand. If you don't think sex is important in a marriage you are really kidding yourself. People couple for many reasons. And we are designed to want and enjoy sexual contact. To discount it's importance is a huge mistake.

USAFAUX2004 · October 24th, 2004

I think that if your going to get married you have to decide if yuor partner and you are compatible, you dont want to marry and not enjoy your life if you dont enjoy sex

Tessa · October 24th, 2004

Do you guys love the woman herself, or that she hasn't been experienced in sex?

I personally don't care how many girls a guy has been with, love is stronger then sex. The same goes for the fact that when loving somebody, then you definetly want some close contact with that person, wich in the end involves sex.

LIPS · October 25th, 2004

No I don't and that should not be the deciding factor in continuing a relationship.

What about:

Trust,

Respect, and

Mutual love.

To name a few.

Most people out there will have some baggage its just how they deal with it

USAOwnz · October 25th, 2004

I wouldn't want my wife to be a non-virign, but that is just me.

Courtenay · October 25th, 2004

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Originally Posted by scott.moore

Most people out there will have some baggage its just how they deal with it

That is a very valid point.

Italian Guy · October 25th, 2004

I don't care her being a virgin. the girl I'm planning to marry was not a virgin when I met her. That's how she can say I'm a better lover than her previous ones.

rOk · October 26th, 2004

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Originally Posted by SilverPhoenix

Do you guys love the woman herself, or that she hasn't been experienced in sex?

Woman herself of course.
If it would be the virginity that relationship wouldn't last long, would it?

View Poll Results :Do you mind if your wife is not a virgin?
Yes, I mind	13	19.40%
No, I don't	28	41.79%
Whether yes or no, it doesn't bother me.	26	38.81%
Voters: 67. You may not vote on this poll

October 22nd, 2004	Post 52
SAINT Centurion	But the wife may need sex even if the husband can abstain from it.. Then the wife may look for a bf somewhere.. What can be done? __________________ WHY IN THE WORLD DO WE NEED TO FIGHT SO OFTEN? HAVE WE FORGOTTEN THE BABIES?

October 24th, 2004	Post 54
USAFAUX2004 Tribunus Laticlavius Gear	I think that if your going to get married you have to decide if yuor partner and you are compatible, you dont want to marry and not enjoy your life if you dont enjoy sex __________________ MICHAEL HATKEVICH, C/Capt, CAP

October 25th, 2004	Post 56
LIPS Tribuni Angusticlavii	No I don't and that should not be the deciding factor in continuing a relationship. What about: Trust, Respect, and Mutual love. To name a few. Most people out there will have some baggage its just how they deal with it __________________ Some more words of wisdom from LIPS

October 25th, 2004	Post 59
Italian Guy Milforum Hitman Gear	I don't care her being a virgin. the girl I'm planning to marry was not a virgin when I met her. That's how she can say I'm a better lover than her previous ones. __________________ "Freedom is the sure possession of those alone who have the courage to defend it". Pericles.

October 24th, 2004	Post 55
Tessa Primus Pilus	Do you guys love the woman herself, or that she hasn't been experienced in sex? I personally don't care how many girls a guy has been with, love is stronger then sex. The same goes for the fact that when loving somebody, then you definetly want some close contact with that person, wich in the end involves sex.

October 25th, 2004	Post 57
USAOwnz Optio	I wouldn't want my wife to be a non-virign, but that is just me.