Originally Posted by GuyontheRight

Cant stand em, but I blame the girl equally for the decision.

Same here, I cant stand people who only want one night stands either.

Yea, I hate It how girls though have adjusted to that attitude. It seems like people these days just wanna "do something" as my friend puts it, then move on. It's dumb, because nice guys like me who want to meet girls for more then just sex are slowly being ostracized from the teen dating scene.

People dp grow out of that phase. I went through a brief "one night stand" phase around age 24/25. Alot of people do. I think its because you realize you ae going to settle down soon, and you kind of go a little nuts.

Hey GOTR, i know what you mean, and then when people like us refuse to look at the class porn magazine(yes, my school is so bad they actually pass around porn magazines in class) we are called gay, what is up with that, nowadays if you think of a woman as anything more than a sex object your peers refer to you as a homo. what is up with that.

Jason, we are one In the same.

well not that its picky or anything..but i think i would rather my woman betrothed to me be a virgin..because if my wife is a virgin im going to be in a a lot of trouble.

just thought id mention it...

I believe in strong, long relationships, but I also believe in living life. I won't go into some of my situations, but it got to the point that at one time, I would have done it just to get pregnant, cause at least I knew my kid might love me. Jeez, I"m glad I'm over those days.

Yes, there are times I wish I could lie about the things I did, especially when a guy asks, but there are never times when I regret anything. Love hits everyone at different times in life... and sometimes it just screws you over.

Anyways, I respect anyone about their decision, as long as they don't "do it just to do it". I think that's gross.

Love does not screw over, people will screw other people over but love is not capable of anything but good, GOTR, there is a verse in Psalms or Proverbs that mentions what love is, do you by any chance no what it is because i totally forgot, i don't get much sleep where i live, heck i never get sleep where i live.

I waited a long time and well into my adult life.

I regret not waiting longer.

A "virgin" is not important. What is important is the committment ou make.

Mrs. AE and I will be married forever. I may not have waited for all of it (and deeply regret it), but I certainly waited for the right woman to marry.

Didn't take the vows until I was 28. My first child/son was born 10 months later. We were mature enough, financially ready (though, in truth, no one ever feels truly financially ready), and comitted to raising our children.

It's nothing worth jeopardizing your future over.

It really isn't.

Airborne Eagle,

Well put!! Thank you for making me smile this morning.