Originally Posted by pixiedustboo

I'm all for the Unicorn group Peddler!


TOG: There is more to having sex than just actually having sex. Though with your age I don't expect you to understand that. I can't speak for Peddler, but a big reason I didn't have sex in high school (and am choosing not to still) is because I see the idiotic way women run around crying after their boyfriend or sex partner didn't call them 3 times in one day. I also know that many of my girlfriends have never had an orgasm. I am aware that isn't the end-all-be-all reason to having sex, but it's kind of...um important? (And yes, TOG, that isn't a problem on your side of the fence - I'm talking about us ladies).

All right Unicorn group here we come!

No...no.. Pixie you pretty much nailed it right on the head for me also. I didn't want to be one of those girl that sleeps with a guy, then sits on the bed, and stares at the phone. Or to have sex, then have the relationship go stale. I'm wanting a love that is real and not just 2 months long! I am not willing to throw it all away, for a one night stand either.Don't get me wrong, I like to have my fun just as much as anyone. But I'm not willing to have sex just because the guy gives me a guilt trip or cuz "Thats what everybody is doing".<----Dumb excuse, by the way!
I want to find a delicious looking guy that knows that I am darn precious! Give me that guy and I won't have a problem.


And THANK YOU Del Boy I'm glad somebody appreciates the 'torment' Pixie and I are going threw waiting for that right guy!

Originally Posted by Del Boy

Because a girl chooses to remain a virgin until SHE decides otherwise does not mean that she lacks the opportunity. They are often those who are the most chased. It doesn't mean they are missing out, it means they are strong enough not to follow the crowd and be influenced by agendas other than their own. Why should they bow to the egos of us guys?

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Originally Posted by The Other Guy

If they want to remain virgins, that's their choice.

Just don't try to press it on other people.

No TOG - the reverse is the problem. It is these girls who face the pressures of their peer groups. They only speak for themselves, and very well too.