I dont see why people are so uptight about sex. Its just sex! The year is 2004 remember?

I don't mind if a girlfriend isn't.

...But I do mind if my wife isn't.

thats v confusing doesn't ur wife have to be your girlfriend before u marry her? so before u marry her u don't mind if she isn't a virgin then when ye get married u do ?

I say let a dead horse die, if they aren't a virgin and they really love you and care about you then they'll feel bad about it. I personally don't care. I love someone for who they are not what they've done.

i don't c why they should feel bad about having sex in the past, its no big deal at all! im not a virgin neither is my fiance and neither him nor i feel one bit ashamed or embarrased because we had sex before each of us met, the subject never enters our heads! come on like its 2004!

Its personal preference at the end of day ain't it. But I'd prefere a guy with some experience as I have my needs to, so whats the past to do with your future anyways? as long as your happy together and the romping is good, i ain't complaining lol

You could show him your needs.

You cant teach an old dog new tricks

I really could care less. As long as he is diease free.

People make mistakes, one night stands happen as do long term relationships.

I find it interesting how many men have a problem with women who aren't.

I wonder how many women have lied about being virgins. The old "if she bleeds she is pure" doesn't hold up any more due to women who use tampons, and are involved in sports can cause the loss of the hymen. So she could be a virgin but no one would know with out an exam.