Don't Ask, Don't Tell Policy

About Don't Ask, Don't Tell Policy Page 16


  International Military Forums > The Dark Side.... > The Hall of Shame
User Name
Password

 
October 18th, 2009   #151
Mighty Mouse
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob Henderson
Wolfen, I didn't mean it in a derogatory way. If you'll notice, I've been sticking up for gay men in the military. I DON'T think they're any different. That's why I put "straight" in quotation marks.


13... I've lived with a gay man as a room mate for 2 years now at a liberal arts college. I think I know better than a lot of people how it is to live with an "openly gay" person. He's one of the best people I know. Very funny, extremely talented, and EXTREMELY intelligent. I've never had ANY problems with his homosexuality... None. CLEARLY it is dependent upon the person, not the sexual preference. I'd appreciate it if you'd not make general statements like that.
I hate to play Captain Obvious here but living with an openly gay man in a liberal arts college isn't even close to a military situation. Nobody's saying gay men are not funny, intelligent, talented, or even good people.
This whole thing is about furthering the "gay rights" agenda. It's just my opinion but, to believe that it's anything else is self delusional at best.


Those who are too smart to engage in politics are punished by being governed by those who are dumber.
~ Plato
 
October 18th, 2009   #152
ObjSRgtLw
 
 
We have gay officer communities and openly gay Superiors who are political reps. One Captain went to the love parade with some of his gay friends with military trousers and pink shirts...
Sooo in liberal democratic Germany everything seems fine.
The communities even send mails over the military net providing info and help for 'coming out' in our military. If you say something against gays you'll be punished. I guess for gay Americans Germany is like heaven ^^.
For reasons I already gave I won't comment this German system and won't present my personal opinion on this either.

We had french Officer cadetts studying here and they critizised this system for gay officers in a rude way - end of story: they were sent back to France ^^.


2Lt, German Air Force Ground Combat Supporting Regiment/ 1st Infantry Battalion.
 
October 18th, 2009   #153
wolfen
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob Henderson
Wolfen, I didn't mean it in a derogatory way. If you'll notice, I've been sticking up for gay men in the military. I DON'T think they're any different. That's why I put "straight" in quotation marks.


13... I've lived with a gay man as a room mate for 2 years now at a liberal arts college. I think I know better than a lot of people how it is to live with an "openly gay" person. He's one of the best people I know. Very funny, extremely talented, and EXTREMELY intelligent. I've never had ANY problems with his homosexuality... None. CLEARLY it is dependent upon the person, not the sexual preference. I'd appreciate it if you'd not make general statements like that.
Nothing taken in a derogatory way at my end Rob, just point out to everybody that would make statements about gays in the military that they have been around since the dawn of military, and they are no less honorable than anybody else. And the "straight enough" was just the thing that would make some peopel wonder if theres different levels of gay.
My point is that the don't ask don't tell policy is b******t and doesn't work, the gay men I know don't go around telling everybody their gay, its basically no body's buisness but theirs

Last edited by wolfen; October 18th, 2009 at 14:22..
 
October 18th, 2009   #154
A Can of Man
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by ObjSRgtLw
We have gay officer communities and openly gay Superiors who are political reps. One Captain went to the love parade with some of his gay friends with military trousers and pink shirts...
Sooo in liberal democratic Germany everything seems fine.
The communities even send mails over the military net providing info and help for 'coming out' in our military. If you say something against gays you'll be punished. I guess for gay Americans Germany is like heaven ^^.
For reasons I already gave I won't comment this German system and won't present my personal opinion on this either.

We had french Officer cadetts studying here and they critizised this system for gay officers in a rude way - end of story: they were sent back to France ^^.
When the French are straighter than you...
naw that'll get me an infraction.
 
October 18th, 2009   #155
senojekips
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by the_13th_redneck
When the French are straighter than you...
naw that'll get me an infraction.
Yeah,... me too.

I certainly wouldn't go around telling people about it.


"I am totally responsible for what I write,... however I cannot be held responsible for your complete inability to understand"

 
October 18th, 2009   #156
The Other Guy
 
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by ObjSRgtLw
We have gay officer communities and openly gay Superiors who are political reps. One Captain went to the love parade with some of his gay friends with military trousers and pink shirts...
Sooo in liberal democratic Germany everything seems fine.
The communities even send mails over the military net providing info and help for 'coming out' in our military. If you say something against gays you'll be punished. I guess for gay Americans Germany is like heaven ^^.
For reasons I already gave I won't comment this German system and won't present my personal opinion on this either.

We had french Officer cadetts studying here and they critizised this system for gay officers in a rude way - end of story: they were sent back to France ^^.
This leads me to another question: If the rest of the planet can handle it, why can't the US military? They could before Don't Ask, Don't Tell. Why is it suddenly an issue now?


I'm the bleeding heart liberal your mother warned you about.
 
October 18th, 2009   #157
Lavite
 
 
Other Guy: "They could before Don't Ask, Don't Tell. Why is it suddenly an issue now?"

I think you have a misunderstanding of what the Don't Ask Don't Tell Policy is. Homosexual behavior has always been forbidden in the U.S. military. Sodomy was a criminal act.

This policy came about some 15 years ago as a compromise to avoid a fight over changing the law and allowing homosexuals to legally serve.

The policy told Commanders not to aggressively investigate alleged homosexuals, unless they were just openly flaunting it. Still, around 1,200 a year were still discharged annually.

Rescinding the policy wouldn't suddenly allow homosexuals to openly serve. That requires changing the law or the courts intervening.
 
October 18th, 2009   #158
Chukpike
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by The Other Guy
This leads me to another question: If the rest of the planet can handle it, why can't the US military? They could before Don't Ask, Don't Tell. Why is it suddenly an issue now?
It is not the military. It is a law passed by the civilian Congress. It is a issue now because President Obama has "promised" gays he would change it.

The gays seem to not believe him. Why? Have you seen him go to Congress asking to change the law?

To keep President Clinton from changing the policy as Commander in Chief, Congress passed a law which meant the CinC could not change the military policy.
 
October 18th, 2009   #159
Lavite
 
 
Chukpike: "Congress passed a law which meant the CinC could not change the military policy. "

Well, not exactly. The law passed in 1993 did not prevent President Clinton from imposing the Don't Ask Don't Tell Policy. The President simply stated in that policy how the executive branch would enforce that law. It essentially in practise forbid actively pursuing suspected homosexuals, except under specific circumstances.

So President Clinton did change military policy. The law however did prevent him from changing military regulations to allow homosexuals to serve openly.

In 1996 a U.S. Court of Appeals upheld the law (Title 10, Sec 654) and said that the Clinton Don't Ask Don't Tell Policy wasn't consistent with upholding that law. Naturally, President Clinton ignored the Court's opinion.

And it should be noted that President Bush didn't reverse the Don't Ask Don't Tell Policy and more strictly enforce the law either.
 
October 18th, 2009   #160
alessandro.pirisinu
 
 
In Italy, nowadays, there's no problem about gay men/women in the military.
I mean it is exactly what SKY 2979 tells about his friend "every one's cool with him, and just as long as he does his job, well no one cares...".

Once I had a discussion with my daddy about this issue: he was an air traffic controller in the Air Force, I was a 2nd lieutenant in the artillery of the Army. He has had a traditional education and, also, he started in the air force in 1956... it was all other time. In those years gays were not accepted in the military forces (when somebody revealed themselves to be gay, then they were immediately discharged).
I remember my father's words with a certain admiration (because I knew his cultural background): "I know one in my unit who is gay... but, who am I to interfere? He's a perfect gentleman, an exquisite person and a solid professional... these are the only things that count... what he does in his bedroom, it's his own matter, not mine".

It has been a great lesson... one of the many I had from my old man.
A great ciao everybody from Italy
 



Similar Topics
'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' Policy Revisited
Petraeus Promotion Ensures Future For Bush War Policy
Edelman Establishes New Policy Office, Implements Sweeping Changes
Architect Of 1980s CIA Campaign In Afghanistan Eyed For Key Policy Post
New policy enables automatic promotion to sergeant