"If we leave, a civil will occur and an Islamic fascist movement will come into power."
And in your vast 16 years of life how have you seen that? Crystal ball? The vast majority of Iraqis want peace and stability. The elections have certainly shown that. They'll work.
"If we stay, we're in for a long while of coalition deaths and bitter hatred of the USA. The terrorist cause is fueled by disillusioned Iraqis and muslims everywhere. It's impossible to kill them all off with coalition troops."
We do not commit ourselves to military actions based on how well we are liked. Deaths will occur yes. Avoiding death is not a viable means to determine your nation's course of actions. Insurgent forces are not anywhere near so vast as you seem to imply and it is never our intention to "kill them all off"
"So we need Europeans to step up and help in the Iraq crisis, and that's what it is. We have some allies, but most lack the courage to commit their military to face Islamic fascism. But they can still help, they can still help us train these guys, because the only way you can win is to speak to the people, and to do that you must BE the people."
And Europeans are so much more like Iraqis than the US is? You've wandered away from whatever point you were trying to make there.
"Of course, the president of the United States needs to reach out to europeans"
He has and got diddly for it except from Britain.
"but so does Europe need to help us."
Yeah they want in on the party now that the worst of it is over.
"Afterall, if Islam should fall to the fundamentalist cause, it will certainly seek the destruction of the west."
Too simplistic and extremely unlikely. There are very powerful Islamic nations that will never be taken over by fundamentalists as Saudi Arabia and Egypt have proven many, many times just to name two.
"Do not forget your dogs of war, your big guns, which are the most-to-be respected arguments of the rights of kings."
- Frederick the Great, King of Prussia