I might be just tossing two cents in, but it seems to me that Hearts And Minds pretty much failed.... in all uses.... and given the degree that these supposed "muslim" groups will take to make a point, even to blow up and kill their own blood and family in the name of being able to say 'Martyr'..... there is only one solution. Decimation by attrition.
Leave the civilan population alone. Help them. Assist them. Bad guys? Take them out.
Bring the Marines, the Army, SAS, all that could be rounded up.