| Depending on the income, it's true, though if the children are young enough not to be in school it's almost smarter to have the mother (or whomever makes less money) stay home until the children are at least school age, with the cost of day care these days.
Truly though, yes, it is a luxury to be able to stay home with your children, and one that shouldn't be a luxury, it should be mandatory and realistic idea for all who would choose to. I think it's a major reason why many marriages are falling apart these days. Everyone is so busy with their own life and their own career they forget to focus and take care of their partner. Vows of marriage say, "forsaking all others," that goes for things that are in the way of keeping up a healthy relationship. (IMHO once again). |