Maybe that US proposses a whole lot of resolution that conflict with the interests of these countries. You do notice the geographical situation of most of these countries? It is called the Middle East or allied friends of these countries and the US doesn't have a whole lot of friends overthere.
What's the deal with Turkey or Indonesia? But the matter of donating money is something else. If you can't stand the fact the the donation countries don't sing your song, give your money to someone else. There are plenty of countries left that need some.